{"id":90,"date":"2009-03-31T14:49:49","date_gmt":"2009-03-31T22:49:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kidnexions.wordpress.com\/?p=90"},"modified":"2009-03-31T14:49:49","modified_gmt":"2009-03-31T22:49:49","slug":"flashback-bounced-check","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.familymathnight.com\/blog\/?p=90","title":{"rendered":"Flashback:  Bounced Check"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I was going through my binder of story ideas for my monthly Kidnexions Connection newsletter and found a post-it with a story about Nathan.\u00a0 It&#8217;s a good thing I took the time to write\u00a0the story\u00a0down because I had forgotten all about it.\u00a0 So here&#8217;s the first in a series I&#8217;m calling &#8216;Flashback&#8217; as I remember or find things my kids did when they were growing up that relates to learning about money.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes we adults use vocabulary words that don&#8217;t always make sense to kids.\u00a0 It&#8217;s hard to do it any other way, though, \u00a0since kids\u00a0 arrive on this planet with little understanding of any words.<\/p>\n<p>But as our kids get older it&#8217;s easy to forget that something that makes perfect sense to us makes absolutely no sense to them.\u00a0 Take the words &#8216;bounced checks&#8217;.\u00a0 It&#8217;s been quite a while since I&#8217;ve bounced a check, and\u00a0that happened\u00a0because a roommate of mine handed me her rent check without the funds to back it up.\u00a0\u00a0 My VERY FIRST mortgage payment in my entire life bounced because of that.\u00a0 Lesson learned:\u00a0 just because someone has a full-time job doesn&#8217;t mean they have any rent money.\u00a0 And there&#8217;s a reason people collect first and last month&#8217;s rent.<\/p>\n<p>But back to Nathan.\u00a0 I&#8217;m not sure what the context was, but apparently I had used the words &#8216;bounced check&#8217; while he was listening.\u00a0 It was probably something like, &#8220;I can&#8217;t believe my VERY FIRST mortgage\u00a0check bounced because she didn&#8217;t have the money to pay for rent and never told me&#8230;&#8221;\u00a0 But whatever it was, he realized that bouncing checks was not a very smart thing to do.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Apparently he&#8217;d been giving this some thought because he finally came up to me and asked,\u00a0 &#8220;Is it okay to bend checks?&#8221;\u00a0 (He does know what checks are.)\u00a0 And honestly, I had no idea what he was talking about until he told me that he heard me say that bouncing checks was a bad idea.\u00a0 It made me wonder what visuals went through his head when he thought of checks bouncing.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I was going through my binder of story ideas for my monthly Kidnexions Connection newsletter and found a post-it with a story about Nathan.\u00a0 It&#8217;s a good thing I took the time to write\u00a0the story\u00a0down because I had forgotten all about it.\u00a0 So here&#8217;s the first in a series I&#8217;m calling &#8216;Flashback&#8217; as I remember or find things my kids did when they were growing up that relates to learning about money. 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